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Wednesday, October 20, 2010

Blogger Spotlight: Shybiker



Today I want to introduce one of my favorite bloggers and one of my favorite people in general, my very dear friend, Shybiker (the owner of the fabulous pair of legs above, heehee.) I have known her for a couple of years now, and many, many emails have been exchanged during that time! It's been my honor to get to know her. I love her compassion, kindness, understanding of human nature, honesty, and gentleness. She is a lawyer by day, a biker by hobby, an animal lover, and a true friend. And to echo the way she words it in her bio, "Oh, yeah...and she also happens to be transgendered." To those who may not know or understand, this (for her) means she was born in a male body but has always, from very early childhood, known she was distinctly female inside. Her parents were loving but didn't understand this, and as a result, she has spent most of her life trying to hide her true self from the world, save for a few exceptions. Over the course of our friendship, I have had the good fortune of watching her get a little braver every day and start broadening her network of support, and I've been so happy to see her blog growing and growing and to read all the positive feedback she is getting from so many people. I know it's gone a long way in encouraging her confidence. She has a beautiful spirit, and she deserves nothing less. She has a great blog in which she has recently started exploring women's fashion more and more, and she's doing a great job at it, mixing and matching and having tons of fun with it and lookin' good doin' it. I know you will really like her! 


I wanted to feature her blog today in particular for two reasons. If you're on Facebook, you've no doubt seen the status update going around about wearing purple today in honor of Spirit Day, which is today (10/20), a day to honor gay, lesbian, and transgender teens who have taken their own lives as a result of bullying. Countless transgender teens are either killed in hate crimes or kill themselves just because of the immense struggle to just be who they are, and the statistics MUST CHANGE. It shouldn't be this way; it's senseless and wrong. People need to be allowed to be who they are, end of story! I won't pretend I can completely understand because I haven't been there, but it is a constant struggle for them, and even a little bit of support goes a long way in keeping their hope alive. And today is also Love Your Body Day. Apparently, 80% of women are unhappy with their bodies. This is sad, just plain sad!! And it's one of the reasons KameraWhore and I started this little project called the closet narcissist, to get all of you thinking about how awesome you are! My pal did a blog post on Love Your Body Day, which you can find here: http://shybiker.blogspot.com/2010/10/love-your-body-day.html, and she was also featured in an interview in another blog about this day, which you can read here under "Ralph": http://2eyesinthemirror.blogspot.com/2010/10/happy-love-your-body-day.html.  Let me tell you, reading through it, I was damn near tears because I know her and just beamed with pride over her words of wisdom and confidence. Her words are especially meaningful because of her situation but transcend her situation as well to impact anyone who reads them. We can all learn a lot from her perspective. She is learning to love and accept her body the best she can, and I have a feeling she'd LOVE to be in any of our shoes as women who have the luxury of disapproving of our female bodies!!


Follow her blog and go make friends! :) And learn to appreciate your hot, smokin' bod while you're at it.

13 comments:

Shybiker said...

Jen, I am speechless... Your post is so kind. Thank you so much. I'm incredibly touched.

And yes, I'd switch places with any of you out there. :)

Doe Deere said...

Dear Jen,

Thank you so much for writing about our friend. Yay! :)

redumbrellachronicles said...

Really enjoying your blog. What kind words and wisdom. Keep it up!

http://redumbrellachronicles.wordpress.com/

Baxter said...

That was truly inspiring, both for the topic and the love with which it was written. What a friend we have in Jen!

She is Sara said...

I love Ralph, Shybiker is an awesome blog with an amazing blogger behind it. A very sweet individual, and look at those gams!!! lol :)

Sheila said...

Ralph is awesome - and those legs! Dang!

Jenarcissist said...

Thanks to all of you for these kind comments...they mean as much to me as I'm sure they do my buddy! :)

Jenarcissist said...

P.S. Doe, you know I met her because of your blog, and I am so happy that I got a two-fer out of that deal!! hehe

Isabel said...

this was such a kind great profile about shybiker :)

Doe Deere said...

Always happy to connect two good people. :D

Ashley said...

Great choice for a feature, of course! :) My legs aren't even half as awesome!

Thanks for your comment--I'm very happy to hear you enjoyed the <3 Your Body Day interviews.

Very interesting to read more about your blog and the idea behind it. Glad I found you guys! I'll be back soon! xx

Anonymous said...

Jen, I'm the lucky woman who lives with Shybiker. I feel pretty blessed to have him in my life. He is just as you describe him--compassionate, kind, honest, and gentle. And may I add, funny and passionate. Thanks for writing such a lovely piece. Robin

Jenarcissist @ the closet narcissist said...

Robin!!! Really great to hear from you!! Thank you so much. It was my pleasure, and I hope to get to know you as well! :)

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